No Newspaper or Radio Station in Atenas, So how . . .

There is no newspaper as such in Atenas, so how do you find out what is happening? Asked one of my blog readers who is considering a move to Costa Rica with Atenas one of several places on his radar. Here is my answer to him as written in an email and decided to share with all because I know some other readers are also considering Atenas:

There is no Atenas newspaper. Expats get information in many ways, often through Facebook which is not my personal favorite media. 

One of the best is a closed group (meaning you just join before you get to see the messages) and the joining is just a click and if asked why, tell them you are thinking about moving to Atenas. The questions asked are quite widespread and help you learn a lot about Atenas, plus you can post any question you have at anytime.   https://www.facebook.com/groups/atenascostaricainfo/I enjoy and learn from reading many of the posts that come to me as emails, then I click on the button at bottom of email “View on Facebook” to read all the answers different people give. Quite interesting! 

A “Public Group” I think you still need to join to get email notices of posts tends to be more local and therefore more in Spanish: https://www.facebook.com/groups/121660851190044/

Another FB group for expats in Atenas is called “New Community” and is the expat, English-speaking, mostly Americans who attend the English speaking services at Iglesia Biblical, the evangelical church for Atenas. If you are what I remember as a “typical Texan” Southern Baptist or other evangelical, you will like the people (multiple denominations) and monthly fellowships and possible the Tuesday night Bible Study in English, Wednesday night English Prayer Meeting worship/Bible study and the first Sunday big worship in English or translated to English. The First Sunday service is followed by a potluck lunch at one of the expat’s home or occasionally out at a restaurant. Good fellowship. https://www.facebook.com/groups/145046998883605/

Andrew Partain’s page is mostly about real estate and his ReMax company rentals and houses for sale: https://www.facebook.com/andrew.partain.988?fref=ts

And many other FB groups that you might find interesting and helpful like Costa Rica by Bus, special interest groups like the birding club I’ve already introduced you to, etc. Now the funny thing about a small country town is that fiestas, parades, etc. are mostly learned about by word of mouth and not advertising. A few events will have signs up around town in some businesses and there is a big bulletin board at La Coope Super you can check when grocery shopping. But you still may walk to Central Park any day or night and stumble upon some celebration or fiesta you never heard about. 

Not a lot of help, but Facebook is the biggest communicator among locals and maybe expats too. Whatsapp is popular locally because it is free messaging if you have WiFi connection. Most locals use a prepaid cell phone that costs by the minute and that is what I use. 

TWO MORE THINGS I FORGOT TO INCLUDE IN THE ABOVE EMAIL:

One lady expat in Atenas sends out an email newsletter once a month to whomever subscribes called Atenas Today which has various kinds of articles including news about coming events. And a list of all the Atenas expats who agree to be listed with whatever address or phone they want to share. Many find this helpful. To get on the list for this newsletter email atenastoday@gmail.com

There is a restaurant called Kay’s Gringo Postres that sends out a weekly newsletter with their menu as promotion of restaurant that includes articles about gringos and some coming events. They also communicate with a Facebook Page.  I’m trying to blend in with the local culture, so I personally try not to hang out with gringos too much and thus don’t frequent the restaurant much.

And there are probably more, but nothing is better than local friends to know what is going on in a small country town! 

Sphinx Moth or Hawk Moth

Unknown variety of Sphinx Moth or Hawk Moth
On my terrace ceiling tonight, Roca Verde, Atenas, Costa Rica

There are over 1,400 species of this category of moths and I haven’t found a match to this one. But I love the use of different shades of brown God used in painting this guy! It would go with my brown and white bedroom color scheme!   🙂

Malachite Butterfly As Houseguest

Malachite Butterfly

Inside My House, Roca Verde, Atenas, Costa Rica
Malachite Butterfly

Inside My House, Roca Verde, Atenas, Costa Rica
NOTE: The bottom or wings-folded side is always lighter in color
And see my Butterfly Gallery with 50 species photographed here.

Monarch Caterpillar Becoming a Chrysalis then Butterfly

I just got this video off a Costa Rica Gardener FB page, made by a lady living here in Costa Rica:

https://www.facebook.com/diane.stewartcarrier/videos/vb.1240732740/10205325645240886/?type=2&theater   Click the arrows and watch it full screen!

Amazing video!

Caterpillar to Chrysalis in still photo stages. (From internet-not my photo)
And a YouTube video of Monarch emerging from the chrysalis:

The resulting Monarch Butterfly (this is my photo)
La Paz Waterfall Garden, Costa Rica

“Metamorphosis is the most profound of all acts.” 
― Catherynne M. Valente

And in some ways, we people are metamorphosing
as our world changes around us! Even that can be profound!
As Paul said:

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; 
old things have passed away, and look, new things have come. 

2 Corinthians 5:17 HCSB

And see my Butterfly Gallery with 50 specioes

Ginger is Gone

ANOTHER PERSONAL-TYPE MESSAGE FOR THOSE WHO KNOW MY FAMILY

Got this email message from Jason/Athena today:

I got the call this morning. Moms gone. I wanted to let you know.

Need some time, but we can talk soon.

My simple reply back to my “lost” son:

Athena, 

Hope you are doing okay. 

You say when and I will call you on my phone bill. Talking is good. I’m still processing it myself. 

Love you, Dad.

We were married for 20 years, so it is still a loss with some deep emotions, even though we divorced 26 years ago and she was quite mean to me. She was the mother of my two precious children, Jason and Juli. The loss of Juli in 1997 was the greatest loss of my life, though the emotional loss of my son has been pretty great too. But who knows? This could be the beginning of a new adventure with Jason/Athena! Our relationship is still fragile but hopeful now. 

And whatever happens, God is good and I am happy with my life in Costa Rica! Pura Vida! Thanks for the encouragement several of you have given already! I choose not to share these personal feeling on Facebook. So thanks to those who read the blog!  🙂

AN INTERESTING ASIDE (Coincident?)
I read and loved the Harry Potter series of 7 books and of course saw all the movies! I think they are the best books written for teens and pre-teens since C.S. Lewis and J.R.R. Tolkien! I think J.K. Rowling is right up there with them in writing ability! (And she made more money!) BUT ANYWAY:

She said she would not continue the Harry Potter books further, but just came out with a play (in book form of course) that can now be seen in West End London and I expect in the states soon. So the play becomes the 8th book in the series as a continuation of the story (regardless what she said). I just finished it, Harry Potter and the Cursed Child, a very moving story of how the adult Harry feels he has failed one of his three children, a “different” son named Albus (with a tiny hint of possible gayness coming in future stories). The very exciting and dangerous adventure they participate in together brings the father and son together of course! Yet the play ends with their relationship still up to the two of them with the message that it is still fragile but hopeful now! Just a coincidence that I read it this week, but a nice coincidence in light of the possible new relationship with my son. AND MY LIFE CONTINUES TO BE A SURREAL ADVENTURE!

¡Pura Vida!
¡Dios es Bueno!

 

Tired of Olympics? Try World Surfing Games!

http://www.ticotimes.net/2016/08/07/world-surfing-games-costa-rica (click for article)

World Surfing Games, Jaco, Costa Rica

Or see this video of Jaco’s surfboard artist sensation:

CERRAJERIA = Locksmith

CERRAJERIA is Spanish for Locksmith and this one is the only one
I could find in Atenas or the only place to have a key duplicate made.
And I learned a new word! ¡Las palabras son muy importantes!
My duplicate keys were made quickly and efficiently and they work!

Blomfild’s Beauty

Blomfild’s Beauty or Smyrna bloomfildia

I also had one of these in my house last year, but this may be a little better photo the designs, though last year I got part of the top of wings which is greatly different. The intricate details of the design in this butterfly is amazing to me. I went next door and invited Anthony (the artist) over to see it and he photographed it too as a design idea for some of his future artwork. This time it was on the window screen of my kitchen window. 

I see butterflies as flying art! And what an art gallery my garden provides! 
Charlie Doggett

Ginger & Jason

This post is really only for family and close friends who knew me back when married and younger. Ginger and I divorced in 1990 and Jason tried several things before, in over simplification, ran away and had nothing to do with me since the mid-nineties except for a few times wanting money. I tried connecting with him several times but we lived in totally different worlds and could never connect.

Sometime in the last 5 years he decided to become a transsexual and except for a few close friends, I told no one. How do you? With several gay friends I had come to understand or accept homosexuals, but as I told Jason, I have no experiences with trans and no understanding of it. We remained apart, still not understanding each other. He chose not to stay in communication and I had no addresses or phone number.

A couple of weeks ago I received my first contact from Jason in nearly 5 years. He has legally changed his name to Athena and wrote to tell me that his mother (my wife of 20 years) was dying of cancer and might not last through the week. He needed to see her and close out her business and other affairs. Of course, I paid to fly him from Asheville, NC to Gatesville, TX and other related expenses. He spent a week with her in a Gatesville nursing home. He emptied and closed out her apartment, shipping himself 16 boxes. And all arrangements are made for her to stay in the nursing home until she dies by signing over her Social Security check. Her will and the deposition of her ashes are also arranged. So my little boy has grown up and handled one of the toughest times of life, though she still has not died yet.

We have corresponded several times by email and I am again trying again to “connect” with Jason/Athena, though still not sure how or if possible. He is about to turn 43 and showing some interest in family history for the first time, so that is certainly part of my language. 🙂 We will see what happens. Your prayers are appreciated! And maybe my post of last night makes a little more sense now. God is my rock and my salvation!

As most of you know, I don’t like to keep secrets and not good at it, so again I’m being very open and honest and simply trusting God to be in charge. Thank you for allowing that in me. It is good to have friends!

MY LIFE VERSES

  Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
and do not rely on your own understanding;
  think about Him in all your ways,
and He will guide you on the right paths.

Proverbs 3:5-6, Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

Dios es bueno 

Trust in God Alone

Not a beautiful building
like the Catholics, but
The most loving people
found anywhere!
Today’s sermon at Iglesia Biblica was very well presented and in two languages! After the Lord’s Supper (communion) we heard an exposition of Psalm 27 with the closing challenge to memorize the last verse (14): 

Wait for the Lord;
be strong and courageous.
Wait for the Lord.
Psalm 27:14 HCSB



And last night’s devotional in Open Windows was sort of my answer to Psalm 27 & today’s sermon with the first two verses in Psalm 62:

Psalm 62
Trust in God Alone

1 I am at rest in God alone;
my salvation comes from Him.
2 He alone is my rock and my salvation,
my stronghold; I will never be shaken.

My faith is as strong or stronger than it was in the states with a lot less church activity but just as much or more dependence on God. And I am at peace. Tomorrow I will tell you about the latest development with what is left of my family, my son and ex-wife, though I have hesitated to share publicly, I’m feeling led to do so. And regardless what happens next, I live by the above verses and “I will never be shaken.”

And one of the neat things from church today is that the translator between English and Spanish (Both directions, depending on who is preaching each 1st Sunday) is named Zaray, a local school teacher and one of my two Spanish teachers who this week started a new “Intermediate Spanish” class that I’m in with 3 other students. I am a very slow language learner, but it is beginning to “click” and be more fun and I have hope of improving, “poco a poco.”   🙂